I've always talked to my sister about my dating life. She's 11 years younger than me and still in high school, but her perspective is interesting to me. About a month ago when I was at her surprise party, I told her I had reconnected with my ex. Her friend said "Is that the one your whole family hates?" What?!?! My whole family hated my ex ... The one I dated for four years, and I didn't know. I don't know how much bigger of a red flag you can have.
So today when we ran, we talked about the guy I've seen a few times lately. I told her about the couple baseball games we've gone to and out a few times, and she seems to think its a good idea to have fun and just see what happens. I have noticed something happening that I'm not sure about. Every time we've hung out after the first time, he's inviting me out with his friends. I'm not sure how I feel about this, because I really like his friends, but it doesn't feel like a date. It feels more like we're becoming friends that hang out. I know guys always complain about "friends zone," but I think it's the dumbest complaint. You're there because you didn't take me on a date, it's that simple. To have a girlfriend you have to date her. I keep going back and forth though, because I can't decide if I want to date or if I want to just be friends and hang out.
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